alittlejoy1960, Welcome to the forum,

and I can honestly say that your first post should probably be a sticky thread. With my new profession, I am constantly coming in contact with female gun owners, and first time gun buyers, and I always tell them to think about what they carry in their purse i.e keys,wallet with ID, cell phone etc. add a gun to the mix, and if that purse gets stolen, either from their shoulder, a chair in a restaurant, or a shopping cart, they have just given a gun to someone who has their address, keys to their house, and who will make the very logical conclusion, that the theft victim is now disarmed, and may have no way to call for help. I have even shown them how difficult it would be to get anything from their purse, if they have to play tug-of-war with a purse snatcher.
Being male, and having almost zero wardrobe considerations, compared to women, I can only imagine how much more difficult it is to "dress around a gun" for women, but I feel that it is imperative, if at all possible, for women to only opt for on body carry. Thank you for sharing your experience, and I'm glad that even only armed with SA, the situation turned out for the better.
Please continue to post, your insight, and perspective would be very helpful to other women, who are facing the same issues, as well as, nagging, albeit well meaning husbands.