Honestly, with all the fuss about pat-downs in the news I felt I didn't really have the whole story. Was I missing out on something??

I was asked to step aside and an agent was called. My bags were pulled from the x-ray and set aside on a separate table. The agent took off his gloves and put on a clean pair. He made a point of informing me that he was doing this. I came to find out why a bit later.
"Stand here please", "I'll be using the palms of my hands most places and the backs of my hands in any "sensitive areas"".... Blah, blah... Actually, the agent was pretty good about explaining things before they happened. It took about 3-4 minutes for the pat down and the only real surprise was that it was LESS invasive than I anticipated. Some fingers in my waistband, I had to take off my 5.11 tactical belt and run it through x-ray separately, but overall, I was not "grabbed" in any way that I would consider "inappropriate".
After the pat down, the agent ran his gloved hands over my luggage, shoes and laptop and then ran the gloves through the explosives detector machine. I was a bit worried since I had worn my belt to the range the week before, but, nothing came up on the scan and I was free to go...
Overall the agent was polite and professional. While I DO feel that airport security has jumped the shark, I did not feel that the pat down I got was anything to raise a fuss about. No, I'm not saying I'm ok with current airport security requirements, I'm just saying the pat down wasn't anything close to a sexual assault. YMMV.
Anyone else ever opted for the pat down? How'd it go?