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Without question this guy's behavior is not normal. The question is, just how far out there is he?

I would first try a non confrontational approach. Some fixated guys react badly when "rejected" & become vengeful & vindictive. Next time he crosses your path make a light but edgy comment along the lines of, "wow, we seem to be running into each other all over town. You wouldnt be stalking me would you? What would my husband think?" Then continue on your way.

If this fails get the police involved. Explain the situation & arrange for them to show up next time. They can question him under the pretext that there have been concerns about a suspicious man & if he knows or has seen anything that could help them.

This removes you from being the "antagonist". Keep in mind that some of these guys are delusional & they react as if they are the wronged party & the victim is a cruel and heartless person.

Good luck