Mithras61 wrote:I don't treat a gun as loaded if I have verified it is not & have not put it down since I verified it, but even then I still avoid allowing the muzzle to cover things & people that I don't want to shoot. It's more an ingrained habit than anything else, but also partly a "Do unto others..." thing, since I don't care to have guns that have been verified empty (but not by me) pointed at me.
I don't know that it's a bad thing to spend so much time talking about the rules of firearms. I've been using & been around firearms for the better part of 40 years, and I've spent a great deal of that time drilling myself & others on these rules. I don't know that they've stopped any NDs or ADs, but if they haven't, at least the muzzle was pointed in a safe direction at the time.
I remember one young fellow in basic many years ago at the rifle range that pointed his weapon away from the targets for a second & accidentally shot off above the targets & off to one side. His initial response was "oopsie..." but I believe the D.I. had some special words for him abot 10 milliseconds after the shot that I recall curled some hair on innocent bystanders...

I'm with you here!
I am NOT unsafe with a firearm...nor am I suggesting that any of us become "lax" when handling them. I am concerned that some people take the meaning of these otherwise "good" rules out of context and thus make it impossible to carry/use/handle a firearm with any degree of confidence and tactical usefulness.
Specifically, when folks tell me that they are uncomfortable with the idea of a person carrying a loaded gun (or even not) in a horizontal shoulder rig.
The same person carrying a weapon horizontally in a purse or briefcase does not concern them! Huh?
Our recent poll indicates that at least 75% of the people here who carry, cover (muzzle points at) themselves when they do so...and probably cover others as well. If we accept the "over the top" version of "NEVER let your muzzle point at anything you don't wish to destroy" then how do we reconcile this?
Too, if I can't count on someone to get "rule 1" right, how I can expect them follow "rule 2". And if they can't get the first two rules right, what makes anyone think they are capable of remembering "rule 3"?
Rule #1 is simple! For the life of me....I can not see how anyone could botch this up. The best method is to "VISUALLY' check the chamber. If you fail to do this, then you have been irresponsible, period!
All of these quips like "people make mistakes" and "you can never be sure" are poppycock! Safe gun handling requires your FULL attention, if a person can not do this...then they are unfit to handle a firearm IMO.
I hope this does not come off as sounding elitist. I want everyone that desires a firearm for Self Protection/Sport/Hunting etc...to have one, but I don't want those same folks to be terrified of them. I also dislike how some folks want to "dumb down" gun safety by allowing for tiers of mistakes!
I say, learn to "get it right", pay attention, spend some time getting to know your firearm and become confident with it. Gun safety is not one of those things you "commit to muscle memory", it requires conscious thought every time you handle your weapon.
I have several weapons in my bedroom closet right now that I don't know the loaded/unloaded condition of. Some I keep loaded, others not.
If I were to pick up my daughter's 7mm-08, point it out the window toward the pasture and pull the trigger...there would be a huge BOOM!
I suppose....I could say "I forgot it was loaded", "Mistakes happen" or "Hey I'm human", and maybe someone would say "Man, glad you weren't hurt", "At least it wasn't pointed at someone". But, what I hope would happen... would be that ALL of you would point out the inexcusable/irresponsible action I took, and take me to task for it.
I may not have "remembered" if I left the rifle loaded or unloaded, BUT I can darn sure check. Exclamations of "I forgot", "I didn't remember", "I thought", etc....are not excuses I am willing accept! They don't equal "mistake".... they equal irresponsibility or the incapability to be safe!
Same thing, if a person is NEVER sure their firearm is unloaded.
You MUST be able to determine with confidence that a firearm is unloaded (and therefore safe). Otherwise, it needs to stay locked up in a safe, because you also won't be confident you're not pointing it at anything, confident you don't have your finger on the trigger, confident that objects beyond the target are not in danger.
All of this leads us to believe the same thing the Anti's do: Guns are scary and can not be handled safely.
I firmly believe this is what happens when we take the rules "too far" and out of context.