Tote 9:
If you don’t mind, I’ll throw in my two cents (and that’s about all it’s worth…actually fair market value is lower

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“The point I was making, a life was taken without cause.� Actually, I don’t know that. Regardless of how the shooter ended up in the situation, and whether he should have retreated in the first place (a different discussion), once the situation evolved into a robbery the shooting might be justified legally. If the shooter felt he was in imminent risk of serious harm, firing his weapon is justified. The “shiny� item could have been a knife or a stainless pistol.
“He was not chased to his truck. He could have left.� Absolutely true! Whether he should have left or not…was he morally right in grabbing his weapon and investigating, is of course open to debate and I suspect we will have strong opinions on both sides on this forum. But your statement is accurate as stated, he could have left.
“And if more people in this world tended to their own business a lot of people would be a lot better off and many people would still be alive.� Now there’s the center piece of the discussion. Do you get involved, or do you not? For me personally, the only truthful answer I’ve come up with is it depends on the situation. In this particular situation, I don’t know how I would have responded since I wasn’t there. I know in vaguely similar situations I have sometimes left, and sometimes become involved, but maybe more on that later.
“Having a CHL and a gun shouldn't give you cause to go looking for someone to help so you can draw your gun.� I couldn’t agree with you more

. The person’s mindset…their intent, is critical to me in determining the morality of their actions. Notice I didn’t say the legality of their actions. Folks can be perfectly legal, and morally wrong, and the opposite is also true. If their intent is to get in a gunfight, to me that’s wrong. If their intent is to help others, then I will side with them.
“There are times to help and times not to.� Can’t disagree with that! The trick is to know when each action is applicable and that will depend more on your interpretations of your moral obligations then on anything else.
“I'm done, this will probably go nowhere.� Personally, for me I hope you’re not done. I feel these types of discussions are valuable. This thread alone has been read 266 times as of this morning, but only 15 responses. That means a lot of folks are following the discussion, but staying silent. Some probably don’t care, some have seen their stance already stated and see no reason to add, but some probably have not made up their minds. Those folks need, and deserve to hear all sides to the discussion. Open and civil discourse on critical subjects such as when to engage are always timely and useful. Are you going to change the mind of someone whose ideas are firmly entrenched, of course not. But remember, 266 reads but only 15 posts…
As I said above, I don’t know what I would have done in this particular case since I wasn’t there, but I know how I’ve responded to similar cases.
There’s a little store my wife and I stop in often to get coffee on the way to work, bread on the way home, maybe a deli sandwich on the weekend. The owner and the lady that work the day shift are exceedingly friendly to us, always a “hello� when we enter, some quick banter while we pay for our stuff, then out the door.
One day after we had left and entered our car, I noticed a rather rough looking character lurking around outside. I decided to sit a few moments longer. The store emptied of customers, and then the guy entered and was walking around (pacing would be a better word) at the front by the registers. I got out of the car and entered the store. After a quick comment about forgetting something, I moved towards the back, and stayed behind the guy. He kept turning and looking for me, and I stayed put. After maybe 2-3 minutes of this, he just turned and walked rapidly out of the store, got in his car, and left. The lady behind the counter thanked me for coming back in stating the guy “made me feel cornered…I was worried�. Was he going to rob them, I have no idea. Could it have turned out bad, absolutely! But I like to think it turned out good with all sides living to see another day.