Nice post, Keith.
From what I remember reading on this forum regarding other people's experiences, 3" barrel 1911 type pistols have frequently been finickier than the 4" or 5" barrel variants. Small frame Keltec and Kahr pistols have reputations for being jamomatics, though such problems can be overcome with effort, patience and repeated returns to the manufacturer.
Seamustx provided a good answer to the original poster's questions regarding the shooter-to-handgun interface and 2-25 yard marksmanship.
Eventually, most people who seriously CCW (not those who get their CHL and only shoot once every five years for qualification purposes) figure out that 21st century high fashion and dressing for concealment are frequently (if not always) mutually exclusive themes. The loose, extra fabric necessary for concealing a full-size autopistol is not always present in the clothes that fashion houses, high-end retailers and the MSM try to persuade us to buy and wear.
5.11/Royal Robbins-type garb is practically the uniform for IDPA, but tends to attract unwanted attention away from the gun range.
Furthermore, excess non-essential bodyfat can further compromise concealment of handguns, spare magazines and other typical CCW items.
In my opinion, it is undesirable to conceal a small handgun that is difficult/impossible to shoot well, nor is it desirable to haul around a full-size handgun that prints ridiculously. Unfortunately, I suspect many make the first choice, with the rationalizations of having the gun, minimal discomfort and obeying the law regarding concealment with ample margin, yet such individuals fortunately seldom have their marksmanship tested in the real world. (If they ever have to shoot when lives are at risk, hopefully they are not faced with technical shooting problems.) Those who carry a J-frame revolvers day-to-day and only shoot full-size pistols in IDPA are a classic example; I am/have been guilty of this.
If the original poster can make it to the Houston Galleria area, I know Top Gun offers rentals. Ordering inert red/blue guns may be a way to test successful range candidates for concealability, but this also requires getting holsters that may not be kept and used in the case of a gun that shoots well on the range, but cannot be effectively concealed. (The dead holster drawer on this forum, or sympathetic members here, may be a source for holsters.)
I am not sure whether what I wrote above is fully coherent, but I hope it helps.