Don't Be Stupid
Posted: Sun Dec 30, 2018 1:40 pm
... it can upset people and could get somebody hurt.
Here' an example. On a road trip across several states to see family over Christmas, we stopped at a small convenience store for gas and snacks. My wife and I both went into the store after I pumped the gas. Just as we were placing our goodies on the counter, the young female clerk looked toward the main door directly behind me and said "oh SHOOT!" (or words to that effect). She immediately started screaming and RUNNING toward the room behind the counter. My wife and I both turned toward the door, just as my wife grabbed my arm and squeezed up close to me. I had just started the thought to clear my jacket to either just put my hand on my pistol, or to actually pull it (hadn't decided which yet at that point).
The reason for all this was because an adult male had just walked into the store while wearing a full face covering clown mask.
Fortunately, another girl in the back had heard the commotion and had stuck her head around the corner to see what was going on. When she looked for a moment, she yelled out (to the other girl I suppose) "it's my DAD!" Then the clown took his mask off, started laughing, and walked back out the door. The girl clerks apparently thought it was funny, too, as they were laughing now also. My wife and I didn't think it was too funny at all.
I should have chewed them ALL out for such a stupid stunt (dad for doing it [before he got away], and the girls for thinking it was funny), but I was so PO'ed by this time, that we just turned and walked out, without saying a word.
As upset as I was at the doofus, after I calmed down a little, I was less than thrilled with my own reactions also. For one, I should have responded quicker; I didn't immediately see the guy as a potential threat. I hesitated a moment when I first saw him, thinking to myself "why would a guy wear a clown mask into a c-store?" Well, DUH!
And it was just accidental that my wife was on my weak side when she clamped down on my arm (a natural startle reaction). It she had been on my strong side, that definitely would have interfered with my draw if it had come to that. Lesson: be more intentional about where she and I are in relation to each other, at ALL times.
And, when the girl in the back yelled out that it was her dad, I relaxed; I dropped my guard. But the guy still had the mask on at that time. What if the girl had been wrong and it wasn't her dad, but really was somebody with evil (and not just stupid) intentions? Lesson: keep your guard up until you KNOW it's safe!
Finally, it's probably better that I didn't, but I REALLY regret not chewing that guy out royally! Really, really stupid and potentially dangerous stunt for a guy who was clearly old enough to know better.
But I guess it turned out to be a good drill in the end; it did give me some things to work on anyway.
And finally, I hope Doofus doesn't get himself killed from being stupid.
Here' an example. On a road trip across several states to see family over Christmas, we stopped at a small convenience store for gas and snacks. My wife and I both went into the store after I pumped the gas. Just as we were placing our goodies on the counter, the young female clerk looked toward the main door directly behind me and said "oh SHOOT!" (or words to that effect). She immediately started screaming and RUNNING toward the room behind the counter. My wife and I both turned toward the door, just as my wife grabbed my arm and squeezed up close to me. I had just started the thought to clear my jacket to either just put my hand on my pistol, or to actually pull it (hadn't decided which yet at that point).
The reason for all this was because an adult male had just walked into the store while wearing a full face covering clown mask.
Fortunately, another girl in the back had heard the commotion and had stuck her head around the corner to see what was going on. When she looked for a moment, she yelled out (to the other girl I suppose) "it's my DAD!" Then the clown took his mask off, started laughing, and walked back out the door. The girl clerks apparently thought it was funny, too, as they were laughing now also. My wife and I didn't think it was too funny at all.
I should have chewed them ALL out for such a stupid stunt (dad for doing it [before he got away], and the girls for thinking it was funny), but I was so PO'ed by this time, that we just turned and walked out, without saying a word.
As upset as I was at the doofus, after I calmed down a little, I was less than thrilled with my own reactions also. For one, I should have responded quicker; I didn't immediately see the guy as a potential threat. I hesitated a moment when I first saw him, thinking to myself "why would a guy wear a clown mask into a c-store?" Well, DUH!
And it was just accidental that my wife was on my weak side when she clamped down on my arm (a natural startle reaction). It she had been on my strong side, that definitely would have interfered with my draw if it had come to that. Lesson: be more intentional about where she and I are in relation to each other, at ALL times.
And, when the girl in the back yelled out that it was her dad, I relaxed; I dropped my guard. But the guy still had the mask on at that time. What if the girl had been wrong and it wasn't her dad, but really was somebody with evil (and not just stupid) intentions? Lesson: keep your guard up until you KNOW it's safe!
Finally, it's probably better that I didn't, but I REALLY regret not chewing that guy out royally! Really, really stupid and potentially dangerous stunt for a guy who was clearly old enough to know better.
But I guess it turned out to be a good drill in the end; it did give me some things to work on anyway.
And finally, I hope Doofus doesn't get himself killed from being stupid.