Will you marry me??

TexasTornado · Post by **TexasTornado** » Fri Aug 12, 2016 7:26 am

How about..."hey, you do know I want to marry your sexy ass right???"

"Good...just as long as you know that IS where this is headed

"

TexasTornado · Post by **TexasTornado** » Fri Aug 12, 2016 7:27 am

omegaman wrote:"I know I want him and only him for the rest of my life and I'm more than ready to start living our lives together..." Something like what you wrote in your post should convey your feelings sufficiently. Let him take it from there.
Happy nuptials.

This is kinda what I'd thought about saying before I asked, so could just leave the question off.

Jusme · Post by **Jusme** » Fri Aug 12, 2016 7:30 am

I just know that this is a very deep subject, this early in the morning I will need more coffee.

TexasTornado · Post by **TexasTornado** » Fri Aug 12, 2016 7:31 am

Jusme wrote:
TexasTornado wrote:
parabelum wrote:You may throw hints here and there (be careful though, we are oblivious species )
I think he'd be lost if I start acting all girly and begin hinting at things. Thank god he's at least used to me being blunt. I guess finding the courage to ask him just seems easier than trying to find a way to discuss it. How the heck do you even start that conversation?

"So baby, I was thinking, I'd really like to get married in a year or two, what do you think about getting engaged now so we can start planning what the future might look like?"

*him standing in shock then running for the hills*

Yea...

Welcome to our world!!

You never know how far a bullet will go when you shoot it blindly. The same with questions of the heart. If he does "run for the hills", then you two were not meant to be. I know that sounds harsh, but that is a reality you will have to face. You can't make him feel the same about you that you feel for him, you can't undo, mistrust he may feel for the gentler sex, if he has had a bad experience, and if you have different views of your future together, then, your future "together" may not be in the cards. Again, no one here knows him like you do, so we can only guess and speculate. But if fear of losing him is the only thing stopping you, then you may need to reevaluate your relationship in general. JMHO ( I'll stop channeling my inner DR. Phil now)

He's said he's not going anywhere ever lol. But yea, let's just say I'm glad his ex lives far far away from me. Any woman who could not be there waiting when her man returns from a year over seas.....yea we'd have some words to say the least.

TexasTornado · Post by **TexasTornado** » Fri Aug 12, 2016 7:33 am

Jusme wrote:I just know that this is a very deep subject, this early in the morning I will need more coffee.

Welcome to a woman's world. Second we wake up this stuff goes through our heads.

Jusme · Post by **Jusme** » Fri Aug 12, 2016 7:35 am

TexasTornado wrote:
Jusme wrote:I just know that this is a very deep subject, this early in the morning I will need more coffee.
Welcome to a woman's world. Second we wake up this stuff goes through our heads.

I know, I accuse my wife of intentionally hitting me with questions early in the morning when she knows I am mentally defenseless!!

bblhd672 · Post by **bblhd672** » Fri Aug 12, 2016 7:36 am

TexasTornado wrote:How about..."hey, you do know I want to marry your sexy ass right???"

"Good...just as long as you know that IS where this is headed "

If he ain't on board after hearing that, I don't know what to tell you! Maybe "You know I'm armed right cowboy?"

I agree that letting him know that is what you see happening and that you want to start the process is the right way to go about it.

Once he agrees that is what he wants to do and a time frame is discussed, let him do the honors of asking you formally. My wife and I agreed that our relationship was going to end in marriage and the general time frame that we wanted it to happen. We shopped and bought engagement ring and wedding band together, and after doing that I formally asked her.

LSUTiger · Post by **LSUTiger** » Fri Aug 12, 2016 7:48 am

Buy him a Barrett M110 50 Cal Sniper Rifle, complete with optics, magazines and at least 1000 rds of ammo. He'll ask you to marry him.

LSUTiger · Post by **LSUTiger** » Fri Aug 12, 2016 7:51 am

Jusme wrote:
TexasTornado wrote:
Jusme wrote:I just know that this is a very deep subject, this early in the morning I will need more coffee.
Welcome to a woman's world. Second we wake up this stuff goes through our heads.

I know, I accuse my wife of intentionally hitting me with questions early in the morning when she knows I am mentally defenseless!!

I accuse my wife of intentionally hitting me with questions, she knows I am mentally defenseless!!

TexasTornado · Post by **TexasTornado** » Fri Aug 12, 2016 7:55 am

LSUTiger wrote:Buy him a Barrett M110 50 Cal Sniper Rifle, complete with optics, magazines and at least 1000 rds of ammo. He'll ask you to marry him.

Lol! Last time I went to the gun show and got him a present....his response?

"I hope you didn't get me a gun"

Nope!! I got him an OTF knife that can go through the hood of a car tho

Happy Anniversary baby

AJSully421 · Post by **AJSully421** » Fri Aug 12, 2016 9:02 am

Wait... You're a girl?!?!?

There are girls on here (besides Crossfire)???

Only kidding. I'm old fashioned. I would not like for a woman to ask me to marry her. Frankly, if I was interested, I would be the one bringing it up... But that is just me. I'm the guy who believes in "If there is an elephant in the room, introduce him." So I might not be the best one to listen to.

Start with "So, what do you think about us getting married in the next year or two?

It let's him know that you are interested and if he wants to, he will commit, if he doesn't, then now you know.

TXBO · Post by **TXBO** » Fri Aug 12, 2016 9:10 am

TexasTornado wrote:
parabelum wrote:You may throw hints here and there (be careful though, we are oblivious species )
I think he'd be lost if I start acting all girly and begin hinting at things. Thank god he's at least used to me being blunt. I guess finding the courage to ask him just seems easier than trying to find a way to discuss it. How the heck do you even start that conversation?

"So baby, I was thinking, I'd really like to get married in a year or two, what do you think about getting engaged now so we can start planning what the future might look like?"

*him standing in shock then running for the hills*

Yea...

If he's used to you being blunt, simply ask him if he plans to ask you to marry him any time soon.

Or....

Tell him you've decided not to have sex again until you are engaged to be married.

AJSully421 · Post by **AJSully421** » Fri Aug 12, 2016 9:13 am

TexasTornado wrote:
LSUTiger wrote:Buy him a Barrett M110 50 Cal Sniper Rifle, complete with optics, magazines and at least 1000 rds of ammo. He'll ask you to marry him.
Lol! Last time I went to the gun show and got him a present....his response?

"I hope you didn't get me a gun"

Nope!! I got him an OTF knife that can go through the hood of a car tho

Happy Anniversary baby

Well... If he won't marry you, seems to me that you'd be quite a catch for anyone else.

Jusme · Post by **Jusme** » Fri Aug 12, 2016 9:17 am

AJSully421 wrote:
TexasTornado wrote:
LSUTiger wrote:Buy him a Barrett M110 50 Cal Sniper Rifle, complete with optics, magazines and at least 1000 rds of ammo. He'll ask you to marry him.
Lol! Last time I went to the gun show and got him a present....his response?

"I hope you didn't get me a gun"

Nope!! I got him an OTF knife that can go through the hood of a car tho

Happy Anniversary baby
Well... If he won't marry you, seems to me that you'd be quite a catch for anyone else.

TexasTornado · Post by **TexasTornado** » Fri Aug 12, 2016 9:30 am

TXBO wrote:
TexasTornado wrote:
parabelum wrote:You may throw hints here and there (be careful though, we are oblivious species )
I think he'd be lost if I start acting all girly and begin hinting at things. Thank god he's at least used to me being blunt. I guess finding the courage to ask him just seems easier than trying to find a way to discuss it. How the heck do you even start that conversation?

"So baby, I was thinking, I'd really like to get married in a year or two, what do you think about getting engaged now so we can start planning what the future might look like?"

*him standing in shock then running for the hills*

Yea...
If he's used to you being blunt, simply ask him if he plans to ask you to marry him any time soon.

Or....

Tell him you've decided not to have sex again until you are engaged to be married.

Who are we trying to punish here, him or me???

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