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Progress in the Family

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My grown daughter (35 years old) used to fall under the category of "uneasy" about firearms. Last year with some nudging I convinced her to go to the range with me. After a brief safety class and some basics, loading, unloading, grip, etc., we were off to the range.

I gave her the choice of weapons to fire (her first time) from the ones I owned or a rental and explained what she might expect from the various options. She opted to use one of mine a Springfield XDs 9mm. She did quite well for her first time. She took her target home for display and we went to lunch after. The conversation was all inclusive about her experience at the range and how she enjoyed it and would be willing to go again. I planted the seed that if she ever wanted to pursue getting her license that I would fund the endeavor.

Fast forward to last weekend where a dear Aunt was in town (76 years old) from Colorado. She was staying with my brother in Dallas and due to my work schedule I only had Sunday to visit and entertain. She wanted to see me and of course my family. I got the strange idea that maybe she would enjoy a range visit as well! I know, I know, a little bit of stretch here. But when I asked if she would be interested in that. She surprisingly replied. "I always wanted to do that!"

So after we all met for brunch on Sunday. My Aunt, my Daughter, and myself headed to the range.

Note: Due to previous feedback from my Daughter I purchased a Bersa .380 and I introduced it to her saying that she could take custody of it whenever she was ready.

The range time went smoothly and all went well. My Daughter seemed to have much more confidence and poise than her first visit and my Aunt did pretty darn good for a seasoned lady. She did have a habit to want to hand me (standing behind) her firearm after every string of fire. Everytime I grabbed her hand and pistol gently but firmly keeping the muzzle down range to prevent her from doing that. Hey! She is 76 years old, about 4'11" and 85 pounds. I think still, not bad for an old lady!

Both ladies took their targets with them when we left and we decided to stop for drinks to discuss the day's events (cokes, and iced tea at Chili's).

After hearing from my Daughter that she really enjoyed the .380 and that she felt like she had much more control and accuracy with it. I reminded her it was hers for the taking when she wanted. Her only objection is that she would have to get a safe or lock box for it before she could. I showed her the lockable transport container that I had in my car and told her, if she liked, she could have mine and I would get another one.

So she thanked me and took the .380 home with her. I told her before the day was over that she would need to clean it and told her she could learn how on youtube or other websites.

A couple of hours later I got a call from her. She went on to tell me how she bought a cleaning kit for it and another magazine so she could have one loaded with JHP and the other for the range, and she was also looking at range bags. She went on to ask a lot of questions about the LTC Class and application process. She further requested if we could plan some time so I could show her how to clean it which of course I agreed.

I asked her about her husband's reaction to her new addition and she told me he was "OK, with it" after she explained that it was merely a tool that could do no harm unless it was loaded and the trigger was pulled. I would classify him under the category of probably "anti-gun".

So, the ending of the story. It appears that my Daughter is "on board" now, my aunt spoke of getting a pistol for her home once she got back to Colorado, and as for me? Well, because my firearm inventory had been reduced it justified me (at least in my mind) to purchase a replacement which I did. A Sig Sauer P238. I love a story with a happy ending! :anamatedbanana

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:biggrinjester: :hurry: :anamatedbanana :thewave

Always good to have someone on board. I am sure you are a happy dad and feel safer with her having more knowledge of firearms. I'm glad she enjoyed it and I am sure you were happy to teach her.

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Awesome story! I own a Sig P238 (as well as it's big brother the Sig P938). A buddy of mine sold me his Bersa Thunder .380 and I have since passed that on to a friend of mine. She hasn't shot it yet, but is regularly asking when we can go. I applaud your method of turning people who are "uneasy" around guns into people who enjoy shooting. Keep up the good work!
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Thanks! Yes, I am very pleased and I look forward to her becoming "one of the good guys!" :patriot: :fire
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I needed a story like this today. Congrats!
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Flightmare wrote:Awesome story! I own a Sig P238 (as well as it's big brother the Sig P938). A buddy of mine sold me his Bersa Thunder .380 and I have since passed that on to a friend of mine. She hasn't shot it yet, but is regularly asking when we can go. I applaud your method of turning people who are "uneasy" around guns into people who enjoy shooting. Keep up the good work!
Thanks much! I fired the P238 as a rental the same day as my story and had my Daughter try it. She switched twice between the two to compare and said she liked the Bersa better. Which was good news considering the price between the two of them. So the end result was both of us get new firearms!
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Love it! Thanks!
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I would call that a productive day!
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rytchard wrote:
Flightmare wrote:Awesome story! I own a Sig P238 (as well as it's big brother the Sig P938). A buddy of mine sold me his Bersa Thunder .380 and I have since passed that on to a friend of mine. She hasn't shot it yet, but is regularly asking when we can go. I applaud your method of turning people who are "uneasy" around guns into people who enjoy shooting. Keep up the good work!
Thanks much! I fired the P238 as a rental the same day as my story and had my Daughter try it. She switched twice between the two to compare and said she liked the Bersa better. Which was good news considering the price between the two of them. So the end result was both of us get new firearms!
I have a p238 too. Wouldn't trade it for anything despite it's price tag. On the rare occasion I acutally wear a dress it even fits in my clutch nicely.
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Great story!
You never know how far reaching these experiences will be for your daughter and aunt. They will now,not only have stories to tell, but will be another spokesperson for guns, and gun rights, as they can demonstrate how "normal" people enjoy shooting. And they may have others join them in their new found pastime.

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Jusme wrote:Great story!
You never know how far reaching these experiences will be for your daughter and aunt. They will now,not only have stories to tell, but will be another spokesperson for guns, and gun rights, as they can demonstrate how "normal" people enjoy shooting. And they may have others join them in their new found pastime.

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Thanks much! I forgot to add. Earlier in the day when we went out to eat (Fuzzy's Taco Shop on Hulen in Fort Worth) when about to enter the restaurant I saw that they had a .06 and .07 sign posted. I told everyone in our party that I'll be right back, I have to put something in the car and pointed to the signs. My Aunt said "that's stupid! Criminals aren't going to pay any attention to those signs and you have a license! I replied ....exactly! :tiphat:
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rytchard wrote:
Jusme wrote:Great story!
You never know how far reaching these experiences will be for your daughter and aunt. They will now,not only have stories to tell, but will be another spokesperson for guns, and gun rights, as they can demonstrate how "normal" people enjoy shooting. And they may have others join them in their new found pastime.

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Thanks much! I forgot to add. Earlier in the day when we went out to eat (Fuzzy's Taco Shop on Hulen in Fort Worth) when about to enter the restaurant I saw that they had a .06 and .07 sign posted. I told everyone in our party that I'll be right back, I have to put something in the car and pointed to the signs. My Aunt said "that's stupid! Criminals aren't going to pay any attention to those signs and you have a license! I replied ....exactly! :tiphat:

I thought Fuzzy's only posted 30.07. If you get a chance put it in Texas 30.06.com all of the Fuzzy's listed in Ft. Worth currently only show 30.07.

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Jusme wrote:
rytchard wrote:
Jusme wrote:Great story!
You never know how far reaching these experiences will be for your daughter and aunt. They will now,not only have stories to tell, but will be another spokesperson for guns, and gun rights, as they can demonstrate how "normal" people enjoy shooting. And they may have others join them in their new found pastime.

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Thanks much! I forgot to add. Earlier in the day when we went out to eat (Fuzzy's Taco Shop on Hulen in Fort Worth) when about to enter the restaurant I saw that they had a .06 and .07 sign posted. I told everyone in our party that I'll be right back, I have to put something in the car and pointed to the signs. My Aunt said "that's stupid! Criminals aren't going to pay any attention to those signs and you have a license! I replied ....exactly! :tiphat:

I thought Fuzzy's only posted 30.07. If you get a chance put it in Texas 30.06.com all of the Fuzzy's listed in Ft. Worth currently only show 30.07.

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Now you have me doubting what I saw. I didn't really read the signs closely so now that I think about it I am not 100% sure that both .06 and .07 signs were there. So with that said, I don't feel reporting it at texas3006.com would be appropriate. Since, this is not an establishment that I frequent I don't think I would be returning anytime soon. Perhaps another member who goes there can give update.
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