Great, I'm glad to hear it!ShootingStar wrote:KBCraig,
I agree with your point about Not forcing people to "clean up" before letting them in the door of a church. I know the people who handled the incident and I trust their judgment. This young man had followed the youth minister from his last church, so the two went back several years. The decision was made based upon the safety of the other youth that also attend. It was in no way due to how he dressed or anything superficial. He had many problems that he refused to address and was very belligerent. It seemed to get worse as he got older. The youth minister is the type of guy that would bend over backwards for anyone and had invested years with this young man.
I apologize if I sounded accusatory. I just wanted clarification, because I know churches who lift their noses at anyone smoking in the parking lot, or who has been seen going to the movies, or just hanging out with people who dress funny.
Kevin