The grip only bothers me when I do not wear an under shirt and it rubs on my side. OK, I have a little "extra" in that region.

I am pretty used to wearing an undershirt since I had to for 24 years in the military so I just wear one all of the time now. When shooting it, the grip feels very comfortable. Of course the most I have put thru it so far is 150 rounds in one session. But I felt no pain or discomfort in my hand.
The trigger pull is not to bad. I would like to see it a bit shorter but it is not bad. I have definately pulled heavier triggers. One reason I do NOT like the Berretta 92 series is the Loooooong trigger pull. At least the ones we had in the military. As far as recoil, there is a bit more muzzle flip than my CZ-75B but not bad. Easily controllable.
As far as caliber, HHMM Good question. There is no doubt that a .45 has more stopping power than a 9MM. I actually debated getting a.45 or a .40 instead of the 9MM. The main reason I didn't is becasue of the cost of ammo. 9mm is way cheaper than .40 or .45. If I never shot it and only carried it I may have gone with the .40. But I shoot my carry gun at least once a month. I personally feel that as long as I carry a good dependable Hollow point round, combined with being able to put hits on target, I should be OK with the 9mm.
As I said in my OP I am very happy with it. Now, would I carry a 1911 in .45 if one fell into my holster, You bet.

But between the CZ and this Taurus I am good to go.
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