First off, I am a 36 year old guy, married 14 years to the best lady ever and two wonderful children. I have a black belt in Tae Kwon do and a green belt in Karate. I have decided to get my CHL and start "pacjing heat" because I, even with my background, dont feel safe.
Anyway, I stopped of on the way to the gunshow to get gas that Sunday morning. As I am getting gas, I hear a "hey you" and am met by a large guy standing just on the verge of my UNcomfort zone (most people should know what that is). I dropped back into a quazi self defense stance (but not an obvious "bruce lee"...er Chuck Norris..I am in Texas now, LOL). The guy is boring a hole in me sizing me up (you know when you are being sized up). The guy gives me the 'ole I need gas money for my car "over there" and I need the gas to get me and my 18mo old daughter to Dallas. I notice that the guy has a spider tattoo on his neck and has that general "rode hard and put away wet" look. I dont have anything against tattoos, but he looked like the guys I watched on lockup on TV.
I told him that I cannot help him to which if he had laser beams in his eyes, I would be here. He started to advance towards me (thankfully the gas pump was between us) and I dropped back a bit more. He is just staring at me trying to process what I said. He then said "well, God bless you anyway" and offered his hand. I took it and he just kept staring at me just trying to figure out what to do next. Thankfully, he turned around and walked off.
Hmmm, I wonder what would have happened if I was an Asian female in houston....oh yea, I would be dead right now.
Anyway, that event sent me over the edge to do things to protect myself as well as my family. My wife began to protest me getting a gun and everything, but I told her that it wasnt up for debate. Any more arguments and I will take her down to the tattoo parlor to get "victim" put on her forehead (I didnt say this, but I really thought it

Ok, now that I have my life story done, now on to my question. I am wanting to take a trip to Missouri via Oklahoma and I am wanting concrete info that no LEO can dispute (I plan on printing out the law if available) on car conceal and open carry through Texas, Oklahoma, and then Missouri.
From what I have read, I am good to conceal a loaded gun in Texas, but no open carry Or conceal walking around.
I have read OK's info from people but cant find the exact statutes and all that. It is all peoples' opinions. It sounds like at the border of OK, I need to unload the gun and stick it in its lockable case.
In Mo, I have heard that I can open carry and conceal in the car(loaded), but that it is based on the county and whatnot. I am going for my CHL this weekend and the definition of eternity will be between that time and the time I get my plastic (I already received my packet from the state) and I dont want ANYTHING to mess that up. I am nervous about getting busted by some whacky LEO. I am REAL nervous about going to Missouri(St Louis) because they are one of the top 5 most violent cities.
Any help besides a link to opencarry.org or "use the search function" will be greatly appreciated.
Also, my gear, I have a .25acp Titan and I just purchased a Hi-point 9mm. I am very happy with both as they both go bang when I pull the trigger and oddly enough they poke holes through the paper where I aim it
