Unfortunately, my normal recommendation of 'a good 1911' puts him outside this range.


So I'm asking everyone, what your recommendation is for a good self defense handgun, in the $300-400 range?
Requirements:
-Rock Solid Reliable.
-Semi Auto, not a wheelgun. (I know this runs counter to the line above... but its a requirement)
-Being his first handgun, he (and his girlfriend, even moreso) wants a mechanical safety, no glocks (even showed him the clipdraw safety thing, still no go)
-At least 9mm
Preferences:
-His GF has small hands, something that she would be able to use as well would be preferred.
Basically, I want to be able to give him a list of 'highly recommended handguns', that both of them can go try and hold at a local store.
Also, ones slightly outside this range will be considered if he can find them used in the price range.
Also, since he lives in a state that requires paper to even own one, and virtually no chance of actual carry, this will primarily be a nightstand handgun.