I told him you could...Its your money, but until I got good (comfortable)enough without either, I stayed away from both of them...
I think he has the right spirit, and I told him you do what you want...We'll both see how it goes...
I told him if it makes you feel better, get a light...There are some things some folks here (Especially LEO's and instructors) could bring you up to speed on in regards to lights...
A laser at this point would only demonstrate how much caffiene you've been dumping into your body on a daily basis...I hate how a laser does that!!!

I think he got the point...
I figure getting used to the idea of carrying, and developing a good safety mindset along with consistant muscle mechanics are some of the first things you need to develop in and as a new shooter...
Of course accuracy and developing a consistant sight picture is right up there too...
He's still impressed with CaptDave's 5 shot Texas Star demo...
I was too...
"Mr. S" wants to get that good too...I told him the sky is no limit!