CompVest wrote:I think that one of Excaliber's posts on another thread comes to play here. He was talking about how a "warrior" type projects a certain image to the BGs that those of us without that training and experience will never be able to mimic.
This I don't agree with. I think having a warrior mindset can be learned but for many it is a part of who they are. They have it with or without training or experience. I have seen many men and women who haven't had training have this attitude and be able to project it.
The reference cited wasn't a quote, and I think the general reference to the actual thought may have lost a bit in the translation. What I actually said was:
"For the folks who haven't spent time around either highly trained "sheep dogs" or violent street criminals, think about what's said here in terms of predator / prey interactions. Life is much easier if street predators don't see you as prey. If they do, there are 4 ways things can go:
1. If you see trouble coming in time, you may be able to avoid / evade / escape
2. You can do something to convince the hungry predator you're a predator too and he shouldn't start the game because the encounter won't be easy or fun. Many of the most effective things are nonverbal, as outlined above. However,
someone who doesn't have the heart of a warrior won't be able to fake those parts, and if they try, they'll draw bad guys in like bees to honey......"
The heart of a warrior can indeed be developed and projected by determined folks who do not have all of the advanced training and experience of a veteran officer or soldier, and depending on how strong that heart is, it may well be enough to dissuade a BG's approach.
My point in #2 was that this can't be faked. Someone who is not in fact prepared to counterattack with explosive fury just isn't going to be able to project the nonverbal signals that would convince a predator otherwise. Bluffing sends a confused signal that BG's see as a huge green light because they know it marks someone who will fold when confronted.
It shouldn't be surprising that someone who has actually used explosive violence repeatedly in real encounters in a law enforcement or military setting and won most of those fights will generally project a greater degree of calm confidence that gives would be predators the creeps. This creates the kind of anxiety a fox might have if he were dumb enough to close with a cougar and see the gleam in that animal's eyes as they lasered in and fixed on him with a nonverbal: "Dinner!". This is not a different phenomenon, just a matter of degree.
Contrary to common belief, BG's don't attack for challenge. Their strategy is exactly the opposite, and for good reason. They consistently attack those they believe are weakest so they have the greatest likelihood of repeated success over time. (Drug habits have to be fed regularly). They don't want fair fights, and they don't want split decisions. They want to emerge from each encounter unscathed with what they came for, which in many cases involves sadistic power tripping as well as money.