Charles L. Cotton wrote:I would also get someone to show you how to SAFELY make a "retention shot" and practice that close enough to touch the target. If you ever do have to defend yourself, you may very well be doing it with your hands on the BG or his on you.
That's exactly why I practice that more than I practice anything else. I only get to the range for live fire 3-4 times a year (pitiful, I know), but I do dry-fire exercises several nights a week.
After taking all the dry-fire safety precautions, I'll use the wall as my "bad guy". I practice "jamming" an attacker, with my left forearm and right fist, and weight forward on my left foot. Then I rock back onto my right foot while preparing to draw, pull my left hand to my chest, draw, and fire. Step back, fire again. Step back again, and I'm at a comfortable distance for a two-hand hold, so I switch to a proper stance and continue firing as I continue stepping back.
In tactical classes or clinics, I run a little test by having people come to the line and tell them to get "close to your target." Invariably, they will line up about 3 to 5 yds from the target. I'll say, "no, get closer." They may move a yard. I usually have to say "go up and touch it" before they will get that close. Why? Because we don't like it there; we're uncomfortable; we don't want to be that close to something we're going to shoot, much less fight.
Kudos to you for forcing people people to confront their comfort zone. They're projecting "bad guy" onto the target, and they don't want to get that close to the BG. Understandable. But few people understand that they can't determine the BG's intentions at 7-10 yards, and drawing down on someone and holding him at 7 yards or more just because he
looks like a BG is frowned on.
Kevin