I'm not sure "rational" or "logical" "facts" will help me out in a "conversation" (argument) with a Pregnant Wife!
Her dad actually gave her the .38 special we have and took her to the range so she knows how to use it (all before we got married when she moved out on her own). She doesn't much care for the gun or the fact that we have it. But I've adopted it and like it (a late 80's Taurus snubby). I was even keeping it in the dresser next to my side of the bed without much complaint (we have a drawer safe for it now).
But those pregnancy hormones must have put bad thoughts into her mind because she suddenly got all worried that I would spend "all' our money on guns, be buying guns every month, and leave loaded guns everywhere, and our child (who isn't actually born yet) will find them and shoot themselves ect... not exactly rational ideas that I can counter at the moment.
I think last night I caught her at a bad time, being pregnant is difficult and emotional, and hormonal. I think she will come around once she figures out its something I really want. She knows deep down that I manage our money really wisely. We've done really well. In our 1.5 years of marriage we've paid off $58,000 of debt, we are totally debt free. We are putting lot into savings every month in preparation for her having to stop working for a while after the child.
I think its all a matter of her getting acclimated to the fact that I actually want guns as a hobby and not just the one gun for self defense and concealed carry. It might take a little while but I think she is going to come around and I'll be able to grow my gun collection slowly. Thats what I like about this forum and some others like it is that when you guys share your advice or stories it gives me "ammo" of real-life situations where it was a good thing that person had a gun (Or even better, where even though the person had a gun they didn't have to use it or even take it out, like how they extracted themselves for a potential disastrous situation).
Which brings me full circle back to gun shows and finding good deals! I really appreciate the tips, this is exactly the kind of stuff that helps me make good informed decisions, which usually helps my wife become more comfortable with something I want to buy. While I doubt she will go with me to a show any time soon I think I'm ok to buy another gun soon-ish. Just not as soon as I want maybe, which is fine because I don't know exactly what I want yet.