If I'm a baker or a florist or whatever who has religious convictions which might conflict with gay politics, my solution could be to offer generic products, but not occasion-specific products....or only limited occasion-specific products. I.E., I could sell regular cakes and birthday cakes, but not wedding cakes. No wedding cakes for anybody. I could sell regular floral bouquets and funereal floral arrangements, but not wedding floral arrangements.
"Sure, I'll sell you a cake, but I won't put any special decorations on it to celebrate a wedding.......
anybody's wedding."
I could offer "DIY" decorating kits and components for sale, and then anybody could buy those and decorate their own cakes to their heart's content. Those kits and components would be available to anybody, regardless of personal "preferences". What they do with their own decorating ideas is up to them, but I don't have to participate in celebrating it. And if I price it right, I might not only get rid of the legal headache, but I might still get to make a little money on it while saving the customer some money.
But in the end, my religious conscience is simply more important to me than any fascist threats from LGBT nazis. If I have to make less money by not selling wedding cakes at all, or if I have to find another business endeavor, then that's what I'll do. I have rights too.
LDB415 wrote:Bottom line, why would anyone want a cake from someone hostile towards them? Why would other bakeries not advertise for and solicit gay wedding cakes and why wouldn't the gay/lesbian customers actively search them out rather than someone who doesn't want their business?
Somewhat rhetorical questions of course because the answer is to force their agenda and force compliance by others.
I don't think that "legal" is what they want, as much as "celebration" is. "Celebration" is what they want, because celebration is two things:
- It is a tangible/visible sign of acceptance in a society. Lots of things are legal, and still not socially acceptable. I believe that LDBT activists want social acceptance perhaps more than mere legality. If they can force people to violate their own consciences to put on a sham acceptance, then they'll take that as a victory.
- Celebration is a sign of affirmation. It is not enough for their particular sexual tastes to be legal, nor is it enough that it be accepted; they also required that it be affirmed. The Constitution affirms rights that people might otherwise take for granted - free speech, gun rights, voting rights, etc., etc. - as good and worthy and necessary, and worth protecting. The LGBT movement wants society to affirm the same things about marriage equality. It would be society's substitute for permission.
It doesn't really matter what I think about gay marriage. I do have an opinion, but it is mine. I have found that it appears to be outdated and derided, so I keep it to myself. I think that we are doomed as a society anyway, so if coming to terms with gay marriage hastens the end, then I'm for it. The sooner it's all over, the sooner humanity can begin to rebuild from the ashes. In the meantime, it becomes more and more challenging for those who are interested in preserving their
own liberty to figure out how to live in this world without getting bullied by others.
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